Some questions do not have answers.
Jenni Baby,Grampy Jack was frequently told by his older brother Gerald, "You wouldn't be here if Carter (middle son) had lived".Dad told the story so often, I'm sure there were some scars.L2A
Fortunately, he has some of the best parents I know!
I can't imagine not knowing Tucker AND Tollie. They are both important people in my life -- as was/is their sister, Celia.