11.17.2025

more than meets the I-O

Another week, and all the emotional cliff-diving that comes with dreaming big and raising boys.
Trampoline repairs and marimba deliveries, musical auditions and making periodic tables with Ramen noodles, building strength of mind, building strength of heart. The yarn store and the youth retreat and the food pantry and so much more that may not get documented here, books consumed in stacks, like by boa constrictors, and skies the color of a candy necklace... simply noting some of it.

11.10.2025

Radium Girls

"Radium Girls" were female factory workers in the early 20th century who painted luminous watch dials with radium-based paint. The girls were instructed to sharpen the paintbrushes with their lips, causing them to ingest lethal doses of radium, which led to health problems like bone cancer and jaw necrosis. The women's courage in taking on their employers in court led to significant legal victories that paved the way for modern workplace safety regulations.
The GHHS cast of Radium Girls shined a bright light on ambition, progress and the hidden costs of chasing success. Both historically accurate and tragic, the students' portrayal of the fight for justice and fair compensation was thought-provoking and inspiring. As one friend aptly pointed out, Tucker is never not not nice in real life but played a perfectly cold, smug company legal counsel, not quite blatantly malicious but certainly unyielding.

11.04.2025

today's group project

We saved daylight but could not turn the clocks ahead three years to save America.
It was a long weekend, a couple extra days off school, birthday parties and basketball tryouts, tailgating and food pantry work and well child visits, tech rehearsals and packing for a field trip to Washington DC.

Touring the nation's capital during a government shutdown though? There is a decaying lady on the counter here, held together with hot glue and adorned with hosta leaves and zinnia blooms, an acorn for a head, who could do a better job running things for the country.

Andy did a bit of yard work one evening, raking leaves and removing Halloween decorations, and left a bouquet of lilacs at the back door. How can lilacs in early November make me feel less alone? I wake up and I hardly know where to let my eyes land, dizzy with all the new ways to be angry at the world. But flowers that seem as confused as the rest of us? Give me all of those please. All of those plus the pine scented candle and the gang of 8th grade boys on bikes heading to the pharmacy to fill the cart with community snacks for the long bus ride, all of the cozy crocheted critters lined up along the back of the couch, blankets as infrastructure.

I read it described as a cruel exchange, this flimsy math of hours, one night of extra sleep for months of darkness. This is not a deal I might negotiate on my own, because I believe sunlight is a cure. But so can be finding the perfect pellet ice your sister left in the freezer, watching a child well-versed in choosing music that might move his body to dance, changing into "night pajamas" after wearing "day pajamas."

Today's group project veiled as an election is due, another opportunity to practice taking care of our brains, and our neighbors.

10.25.2025

Jacob Collier & Chris Thile & the A2S

We've all been fascinated by Jacob Collier's particular musical genius, and have looked forward to seeing him live, despite the nearest tour location being up north.  (We arrived on campus after dusk, and Andy told the boys the sun never reaches the U of M) I'm mostly posting here so we can look back and remember the show - the astonishing talent, the incredible humility, the joy of being included in the music-making. 
I kept waiting for Chris Thile's mandolin to catch on fire. Jacob is not only a harmonic mastermind, he's also an amazing showman. And the remarkable courage it must've required for symphony members to agree to compose with Jacob on the spot! It's completely out of character for our family to return home at 2AM on a school night, but none of us regret making the time to be there.

photos via Ann Arbor Symphony, courtesy Charlotte Smith
This Jacob Collier Improvises with the Symphony clip is what really drew us in awhile back!

10.19.2025

'tis apparently the season

 Let's be clear, the through line here is spooky.