We made Lake Trawsfynedd in the middle of Eryri's retina-stretching mountain ranges our first home base, and got stuck in what the boys called "traffic lambs" more than once on the way to the Cae Adda cottage. We enjoyed fresh trout for dinner and charcuterie on the patio, but mostly ate bread and meat and fruit from the backpack. Our first hike was Cuenant Llennyrch, a Celtic rainforest adjacent to the lake, one of over 70 National Nature Reserves in Wales. Nearby, Harlech beach offered sunshine and a vast stretch of soft sand secluded by huge dunes. Watkin Path, one route up Snowden, was a huge hit - a real sheep herding experience, thundering waterfalls and baltic swimming pools, wild goats and brunch at Caffi Gwynant were definite highlights. We were all charmed by Beddgelert, a lovely little village at the dramatic confluence of the Glaslyn and Colwyn rivers with a welcoming church from the 13th century. High on our list of places to explore was Dinorwic slate quarry, where nature has reclaimed much of what began in the 1700s. We learned later that Hank had filled his pockets with rocks all morning, which he thinks may have saved his life when we exited the train from Llanberis on Snowden's summit in what turned out to be the windiest situation we've ever seen.
6.09.2024
Wales part 1, Snowdonia
While every family may have their own version of an ideal vacation, we have discovered (through trial and error) that it works best for our boys to wake up in a place where it's safe to explore on their own while we have a moment for coffee. And although all three will gladly visit museums and monuments or churches and castles, we are all generally happiest moving our bodies outside.
We stayed in three different areas in Wales, arranging a secluded lakeside cottage where the boys could grab fishing poles or chase sheep, a large modern home in a small harbor town to share with friends for a few days, and a tiny converted cow shed just steps away from the beach in Bosherton. Our two week trip was bookended by time in Dublin, Ireland and London, England, so recapping the adventure will require several posts!
The boys wanted to go to Wales for a variety of reasons: They are curious about ancestors, and interested in history, culture and cuisine. The country's industrial past is steeped in myth and legend, poetry and song. Wales is an international leader in sustainability efforts, and home to an intriguing array of wildlife.
Plus "dragons, bro."
5.26.2024
5.21.2024
becoming
The counters are full of peonies this week, an attempt to capture the vanishing mayfly version of flora that seems to fall over as soon as it appears.
We walked home from a graduation party recently and ran into neighbors who later texted how much they love Hank's true-to-himself style. He wore a rainbow "Art" shirt with lavender sandals, a thin cross-sectioned slice of wood hanging from his neck plus an orange rubber loomed choker, and a new baseball cap. His whole look was an aesthetic bonanza really. We were practicing the song For a Moment from the musical Wonka. He'd spent much of the morning working in Chrome Music Lab building different parts, but got stuck trying to combine the rhythms and couldn't find instructions that might help. I was promising to put my slightly more effective googling skills to work to help him figure it out when we ran into more neighbors and Hank decided to play outside instead.
Tolliver took a course from Olympic luge athletes last week, as part of their "future slider" search. He arrived home with soleless shoes and a huge smile. He had texted from his Apple watch while he was still on top of the converted soapbox derby hill, "Could you go ahead and order me some new sneakers?"
Packing Tolliver's camp lunch the other morning, I noticed a small slip already tucked into the brown bag I'd left out on the counter the night before, labeled with his name. It was a note from his older brother, one with words like Have fun and Be safe that basically read like I love you.
Plus a tiny inappropriate sketch in the bottom corner, because brothers.
As part of his Mother's Day gift, Tucker accompanied me to CAPA's "Schooled on Poetry" performance and both of us left feeling inspired. He had to work on some prose recently, his honors English final grade, and I found myself trying to articulate the difference between a retelling and a personal narrative. There was a lot of back and forth around what parts of the story pointed toward who he is. As he added vivid details to make his personality more apparent, themes around friendship and curiosity and hope floated to to the top.
What will the boys practice without my help, absorb without my teaching? What will they become good at because they want to, or by accident, or because they watched when we were unaware? What will matter to them this time next year? They are a bit like peonies, I think, in all of their ephemeral glory, three boys who are still very much becoming. Artists and poets and olympic athlete potential this week, something new next, and I am trying to pay attention to all of it.
5.14.2024
piano recital
Hank: Beautiful Dolphin
Tolliver: Super Sleuth
Tucker: Beethoven's Moonlight Sonata (just part of the six minute song)
5.12.2024
5.08.2024
lately
Sending the boys to school today with tornado warning hangovers, leftover pizza and the moon pies that nobody wants, reminding myself that most of the time they get good sleep and we can have salad with dinner.
Parenting is such a long game.
There was an intentional fire in the woods, another snake at the back door, a text thread conversation that needs to be addressed. There's a cross country interest meeting for middle school and a field trip tomorrow and the prospect of recital nerves... constant conversations about what's important and what's appropriate and if I don't write it all down, I forget. We just keep beavering away at everything, each of us doing our best.
The boys were taking turns on the skateboard after school, holding the leaf blower on "turbo" to propel them toward the dead end, and it felt kind of like a metaphor for life.
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