I see you!

Sometimes I worry that into this busy mix -- baseball practices and blueprint revisions, piano recitals and big kid playdates -- we're pouring our wee babe’s irreplaceable first year. It sounds ridiculously dramatic, I know. And maybe that's part of what it means to be a third/fourth child... they join the family, rather than create it.  Still, I just want to be sure I'm paying enough attention.